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For once and for all let me dispel this myth. I am no superwoman, more like super mistake maker, super grace receiver, super Jesus girl. Truth be told, I am vulnerable. I get tired. I too have my kryptonite. If only you saw me when the pot of rice was on the stove burning, the baby was crying, trying to help three with homework and emailing the teacher about a missing assignment all at the same time; you\u2019d would see my fragility.<\/p>\n
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\u201cI am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.\u201d John 15:5<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n That\u2019s as super as it gets. We should all strive to be super vine clingers. Have you ever tried to be Superwoman? Have you ever tried to do and be everything to everybody? How\u2019d that work out for ya? I don\u2019t know about you, but that left me depleted. You can only love through Christ who strengthens you. You can only give through Christ who strengthens you. You can only serve through Christ who strengthens you.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Beware of falling into the pit of perfection. Perfect wife. Perfect employee. Perfect mommy. There is no such thing. You don\u2019t have to try to do all and be all. Stay in your lane and be proficient at what God\u2019s called you to do. He\u2019s given YOU a specific assignment so stick to it. It\u2019s when you go picking up other things, in all YOUR super strength and might that your hands get too full you can get into trouble.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I invite you to join me in clinging fiercely to the Father. From this place you don\u2019t have to worry about perfection but will be the recipient of his unmerited favor. Do you ever feel unqualified, inadequate, weak or incapable? Sometimes I do. Sometimes I wonder if all my efforts will pay off. But the wondering is usually a trick of the enemy. When he sees a crack in your finish, he attempts to seep his poison in. He\u2019ll try to play on your weaknesses and parenting is an area in life where we can feel the most weak<\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n So what do you do when you’re feeling weak?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Open your heart, release your concerns and fall into the loving arms of the Lord. In His strong arms you can be vulnerable.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n But he said to me,<\/em> \u201cMy grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.\u201d Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ\u2019s power may rest on me. \u00a0That is why, for Christ\u2019s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n 2 Corinthians 12:9-10<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Not only are you made strong when you are weak, but God wants to use you right in that place of weakness.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n When people see me with my children and say things like \u201cMotherhood is your ministry\u201d my flesh used to prickle because the voice of the accuser said, \u201cYeah but they didn\u2019t see you roll eyes at your kid last night\u201d. But I know the truth. I KNOW that the Lord has supernaturally taught me to love, nurture and shepherd this little flock. I know he\u2019s using me right at my point of weakness. Just like He used Moses. Doubting Moses. Unqualified Moses. Fearful Moses. Moses who was fearful and ran from his staff when it turned into a snake; God told him to PICK UP that very thing and use it as a sign. The same thing that Moses ran from was the very instrument that would hit a rock to bring water to nourish the people and would part the waters so they could cross on dry land. God used Moses\u2019 weakness and He wants to use yours too.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n [bctt tweet=”Your weaknesses aren\u2019t flaws to be magnified but opportunities for God\u2019s grace to be glorified.” username=”inspiredfully”]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Making mistakes is part of the human experience. 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Be strong in His might today.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n To continue this story, pick up a copy of my new book, Purposeful Parenting<\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n As always, it is my prayer that you\u2019ve been Inspired To Live Fully<\/em>!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Happy to partner with these friends sharing the Good News Mommy Moments<\/a>, Purposeful Faith<\/a>, Chasing Community<\/a>, Grace & Truth<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" “Girl, you are superwoman!” For once and for all let me dispel this myth. I am no superwoman, more like super mistake maker, super grace receiver, super Jesus girl. Truth be told, I am vulnerable. I get tired. I too have my kryptonite. 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Give Yourself Permission To Be Vulnerable<\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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Acknowledge That It Is Okay To Make Mistakes<\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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